Yes, all people get sexually abused and harassed, but don’t try to minimize women’s suffering because “men get sexually assaulted too”. The whole point is to shine light on this problem as a whole, WHAT can we do together to avoid these situations?? People (mostly men, let’s be real here) who don’t know other people’s boundaries, LISTEN to what women are saying in times like these and believe that our feelings are true. And random men on the streets & in bars etc, don’t tell me to smile, make me smile. Old men, stop whistling and looking up and down at my body, I could be your granddaughter. Don’t just randomly grab my butt. STOP when I say stop. Major lack of communication going on in this society.... I’m going to say what you’ve probably heard a million times before. Everyone knows someone who’s been sexually harassed/assulted/raped yet NO ONE seems to know a harasser/assaulter/rapist. Could it be that men have a different view on what is considered a compliment and have a different take on rights? Yes, so let’s talk about it and create boundaries that we’re all comfortable with. Can everyone take responsibility here and just be a respectful person, how hard can it beeeeee.
Last night after work, I went to the movies with Bettan & Cecu. I’ve been waiting for what feels like forever to see It and I was so happy that B suggested we’d go since pretty much all my other friends either hate horror movies or live someplace else. I really liked the movie, it was both scary and funny. At times it got a bit over the top (supernatural stuff doesn’t scare me that much) but overall I liked the story and the acting was on point.✨
A few nights ago me and Vicke walked around Töölönlahti to get me a cinnamon roll from a café called Taideterassi. We couldn’t believe neither of us had never been there before, it was such a beautiful location and cozy cafe. The cinnamon roll wasn’t too shabby either....! A+ ♥
Thank you Ben & Jerry’s for having a non-dairy ice cream line and for leaving the cows alone, even if it's just for a second. My favourite is the Peanut Butter & Cookies one, the question is when the Coffee Caramel Fudge one will make it’s way to Finland? ❥